Monthly Archives: October 2020

No matter how perfect your relationship is or how in-tune you are with your partner, having disagreements is normal. The freedom to voice out differing opinions and talking about it is part of having healthy communication. Not everything should be spoken though, especially during the heat of the moment, because some words hurt more than […]

It’s hard to admit, but we have a drinking problem here in UK. A recent study by Bbentleysoflondon established that marriages end in divorce 45 percent of the time, when one of the spouses drinks heavily. You hear the term ‘Binge Drinking Culture’ thrown around all the time in the media, but you only have to […]

Sometimes it’s easy to doubt your feelings. When it comes to your love relationship, you might be wondering: “Do I love him?” Is He The One? Sometimes it happens right at the very start. You meet a guy and you just click. And you think right away, I’m falling in love. Other times, you might […]

One thing every woman is secretly afraid of, especially on a biological level is meeting a man who wants one thing only, then nothing else to do with her. Consider the biological consequences of that during the caveman years: a woman meets a man (perhaps named Ugh), they hookup, and he goes off to do that with another cavewoman. What happens to […]

I have, for a very long time, subscribed to the philosophy of “whatever happens, no matter how bad, it’s all your fault.” This is a little shocking to some people who believe that things happen that are 100% beyond your control, but when you dig into the mindset behind it, you understand why it is a […]

It’s a story as old as the hills: boy meets girl, falls in love, catches girl sleeping with his best friend. Same thing applies with women: girl meets boy, falls in love, catches boy sleeping with her best friend. What gives? Surely if you’re friends with someone, the last thing you should do is make […]

I’m a boomer guy in my later sixties, and I’ve addressed aging, as have most of my fellow boomers. What I know with certainty, and I mentioned in the New York Times article, is that an older guy who dyes his hair just looks silly. Even someone with Coke bottle glasses will immediately notice your foolish […]

People LOVE to assess blame, especially in this day and age of entitlement. Assessing blame is an easy way to avoid responsibility, an easy way to avoid failure, and something those with weak self images love to do. Nowhere do people assess more blame than in relationships. If it didn’t work out, it was HIS fault because he’s […]

Decades ago, when a woman was asked about what kind of man she’d like to meet, she’d say a doctor or a lawyer or some other kind of accomplished man. She’d list the attributes she wanted in him, things like smart, funny, ambitious, stable, etc. Today when you ask a woman about what kind of man she’d like […]

Talkers talk a lot (especially about themselves), but when you examine their actions, you find they do little, and talk to cover that up. Interestingly, though, when it comes to attraction, some of the best doers also talk a lot…but not in the way talkers do. When it comes to women, if you wish to attract them, you have to talk […]