Learn How to Be Irresistable to Men


Have you ever noticed how some females never worry about having a date or a boyfriend? Some of these women are very pretty…but often, some are not. Their magnetism isn’t about their looks.

What exactly are the qualities that men go for? And…can you develop them? If you would like to be the girl that every guy falls in love with, here are the universal truths found in every woman who attracts and keeps the man she wants:

1. FEMININE

Men are visual creatures. They are drawn to a woman who takes exquisite care of her nails, hair, skin, and teeth. She cares about how she looks in her clothes, which is usually subtle, rather than suggestive and shouting, “Here I am!”

She may not look like a movie star but she’s okay with that. She feels that she is attractive enough to date anyone she wants. (Dating statistics show that 67% of U.S. men find that someone who smiles a lot is more captivating than someone who is just physically attractive.)

An irresistible woman has a quiet attitude of self worth that is enticing. The more you hang out with her, the prettier she gets. What exactly is it that makes her pretty? Her femininity! This is what makes a guy feel even more masculine.

2. CONFIDENCE

An irresistible woman is someone who has found the traits and innate abilities she was born with and has honed them with hard work. Whether she can draw, cook, or add columns of numbers, she has turned it into a career. She has either gone to school for training or worked with a mentor. Consequently, she is good at what she does and she’s proud of it.

She doesn’t feel a need to brag but she doesn’t keep silent about it when asked. She shares the facts that show she has distinguished herself in her profession. She never flashes a big ego, which is a turn off.

Confidence, which has grace and ease, is sexy.

3. FRIENDS

You know why this girl can get any guy she wants? It’s because she’s a great friend and she has great friends. She’s fun and funny, she’s up for an adventure, she keeps her word, and you can count on her. She doesn’t let people take advantage of her and she is loyal to those she cherishes. EVERYONE wants to be around her because they feel good in her presence.

4. NURTURING

Because this woman is accomplished and feminine, when she takes care of you, it feels delicious. She fluffs your pillows when you sit on her sofa, bakes cookies or bread that fill the house with a heavenly aroma, and pots flowers for the front door. She’s “nesty.” Her home is an oasis away from the noisy world. When she turns her nurturing powers on, men will swim shark-infested oceans to get to her.

5. LISTENING

It’s a sad and defeating situation when a woman is so insecure, she can’t stop talking. Many people talk all the time because they don’t feel like they are enough. An irresistible woman does not try to fill the air with words. Men love women who smile at them and ask questions about their work and their lives. Women who get asked out a lot know how to listen to their answers.

Unfortunately, the women who talk all the time are unaware of what they are doing. If guys don’t call you back, ask your best friend why they think that is so. Be sure and listen.

6. OPTIMISM

Being pitiful is not attractive. One of my clients said he met a gorgeous woman on the Internet. On their three-hour date, she talked non-stop about all the men in her past. She said they had treated her like a weed in a garden: pulled her out, roots and all, and thrown her away.

She finished her long story with, “So, I hope YOU aren’t going to be like that!” My client said he couldn’t wait to get home. He never called her again. (Statistically, if a guy doesn’t call within three days, there is a 97% chance he will never call.)

The irresistible woman is not looking for a guy to make up to her all she has suffered. She carries her sorrows in life with wisdom and class. She’s happy in the moment and excited about tomorrow.

With over 46% of the adult population in the U.S. listed as unmarried, there are more singles now than ever before. You have every opportunity to date and find the love of your life. If you want to attract someone fabulous, read the above. Learn how to become one of the women who is irresistible to men. You can do it.

5 Ways to Ruin Your Date Before It Begins


Guys, believe it or not, you can ruin your date before getting very far into it. How is this possible, you ask? The answer lies in the many subtle nuances of the female mind. Everything from the way you ask her out to what the date will consist of to what you intend to wear will be psychoanalyzed by the lucky lady in question, leading to potentially disastrous consequences.

No specific date activity

Too often, guys are content to simply ask a girl out without a definite plan. “I’ll figure something out later”, we think. This lack of preparedness may be a major problem, according to experts in the dating field. According to new and emerging research, women prefer men who approach them with a specific date in mind. The reason? It lets women vividly picture the date in the days leading up to it.

The fix? Ask “Let’s go to that new Mexican place on the strip” instead of “Let’s go out this Friday.”

Lack of body odor control

As obvious as this seems, it is one of the most overlooked tenets of sound date preparation. It’s also top among the list of date-gone-wrong horror stories from girls everywhere. The reason for this perennial date downfall is hard wired into our nature. Ever heard the saying “scent is the strongest sense tied to memory?” That’s why a bad case of body odor is what a girl will remember, even after an otherwise fun and normal date.

The fix here is obvious. Make sure the clothes you wear are clean and that you shower before putting them on. This one-two punch of cleanliness should deliver the knockout to your B.O. Worries!

Distracting or inappropriate clothing

This is another oft-overlooked date killer. Common sense and logic should be your guides to smart decisions here. If you stop and think about it, that ripped Van Halen shirt probably isn’t what you want to roll up to her door wearing. Ditto for those oh-so-clever “FBI – Female Body Inspector” spoofs. You want your clothing to speak to the class and style of the man wearing it.

What are some safe options? Polo shirts are always a good bet, along with khaki pants or dark, ironed jeans. Of course, it’s been said that the shoes make the man, so those New Balances you mow the lawn in are a huge no-no. If necessary, go out and invest in some quality dress casual shoes to wear.

A messy vehicle

You wouldn’t believe how many girls complain about the condition of a guy’s car. There are guys who see nothing wrong with letting their date step into a car littered with candy wrappers, McDonalds bags, junk mail, and God knows what else. In any girl worth dating, this evokes strong feelings of “Wow, this guy is a total slob.” The next logical thought is, “How much can this matter to him if he lets me get into a filthy car?”

Guys, c’mon. Can you blame her? Take a good half hour to deep clean your blessed hell ride inside and out. It’s a visual clue that you take yourself and this date seriously.

Bad mood or temper

We all have tough days at home or the office, but if your bad temper manifests itself on your date, you’re in trouble. Yelling at other cars, punching your steering wheel, or being impolite to restaurant staff will make a lasting impression on your date, and it wont be a good one. Women associate such behavior with emotional immaturity and a bad temper. If this is how you act in public, they reason, what will it be like behind closed doors if you two argue? What you dismiss as blowing off steam may have huge ramifications in a woman’s mind.

The key here is to begin your date in a calm, happy state of mind. There are many ways to do this. If you’ve had a tough day, squeeze in a quick jog or workout before your date. (Just make sure you shower after!) Burn a CD of relaxing music to listen to on your drive to her house. Whatever you do, leave your bad mood at home if you intend on having a night to remember.

Dating in Argentina | Loveawake.com blog


If you enjoy traveling as much as we all enjoy dating and meeting new people, you must probably be feeling as curious as myself for dating in other countries. Well, thanks to the Internet I’ve made many great friends all across the world, and one of them lives in Argentina. The other day we were chatting, and she mentioned how guys in her country are big, hairy babies who live with their moms until they’re 35 or so, and I asked her to tell me about her dating experience in her country. She lives in Buenos Aires, and she told me things are different in that big city than in the rest of the country, where people tend to be more traditional. I’ll sum it up for you because it’s quite interesting, you’ll see!

Argentina is a Latin American country that has received lots of European immigration, especially by the end of the 19th century. Argentinean women, in particular, are said to be beautiful, because they mix Latino features (big hips, dark eyes, a lot of passion) with some traces of their European background. You won’t find two people that look alike too much in Argentina. They are very open minded about dating, and it’s not weird for a girl to ask a boy out on a date.

Even so, it not all good news! In Argentina, especially in Buenos Aires, there are many shrinks, and relationships tend to be over-analyzed (“Did he really mean that?”, “If she said no, does she mean yes, deep down?”, “Should I call her? I know I said I’d call her, but what if I meet someone better before Saturday?”), and so on…

Argentinean women may be attractive, but the thing is they know they are attractive, and they tend to seduce men, even if they are not interested in them. An Argentinean woman may spend the night in a pub with some friends totally checking out the guy sitting by the bar, but if he happens to approach and ask her for her number, she will probably look at him as she had never seen him before, and answer a cold “Why should I? Do I know you?”.

And men? They are so crazy from having to deal with this special kind of lady, that most of them have become quite phobic. Settling down, getting married, having kids… never before 30! And not even then: most guys who could afford their own place still live with their parents and are not in a rush to leave the nest. I guess that, since Argentinean women are so independent, guys in Argentina tend to be childish and selfish… just to break even! Of course, there are couples that fall in love and decide to start a family. And then, it is very common for couples to live together before getting married. As for divorce rates, they are coming close to the ones in Europe and US.

Evidently, every country, every culture, has its own tacit rules when it comes to dating and loving… How is dating where you live?

5 Professionals Every Man Needs as a Friend (Unless You’re One Already)


In today’s world it’s almost impossible to function as a successful adult without the inevitable consultation of expert advice. Whether it is health-related, money-related, or simply just too complicated, we all run into a dilemma where we must rely on experts. This is nice – after all that’s what society is for – but more times than not that advice comes with a fee in the form of a professional consultation.

But what if you were friends with these folks? Here are five professionals that, if you ever find yourself befriending, can most definitely help you get through most of life’s burps.

1. Attorney

This is easier than it sounds, because America has more lawyers than it knows what to do with and so the days of legal scholars being inaccessible members of the aristocracy are long gone. Personally I’d peruse the bars closest to your city’s courthouse at around 5 p.m. Knowledge of the law is an incredible asset to have, so if you succeed in ever becoming friends with an attorney, don’t ever pay for legal service until he (or she) has heard your case first and can recommend the right steps to make.

2. Accountant

Someone with even just a two years associate’s degree in accounting can be an invaluable member of your inner circle. Managing money right is a talent most men don’t pick up until after they’ve bailed themselves out of credit card debt. Avoiding that plastic pitfall among many other financial mishaps an accountant can discern is certainly worth having to hear him talk about the 99% of financial knowledge that’s boring as hell and relates to you in no way whatsoever.

3. Automobile Mechanic

This is our third profession that starts with the letter A and another no-brainer – the auto mechanic. This one doesn’t even need explaining, but in case you somehow don’t know why having a mechanic as a friend is important and think watching Top Gear has given you all the knowledge you need, buy a Haynes manual for your car. Did you? It’s a little more complicated than you thought isn’t it?

4. Pharmacist

Why not doctor? Well as I mentioned earlier regarding the bygone era of the attorney, doctors are still kind of hard to come by as personal friends go. Besides, do you really want to be describing the way that boils looks to a friend? A pharmacist or even a pharmacy technician traiing to be a pharmacist will have a plethora of expertise regarding medicine and the way medicines and other health treatments interact with one another. Trust me, as you get older this buddy’s going to help you out a lot.

5. Artist/Craftsman

This is a more general “profession” but anybody with a knack for creativity, whether it is a copywriter or a carpenter, can almost always offer invaluable assistance when it comes to anything from assembling a competitive resume to redecorating your pad to make it more lady-friendly. Most of us don’t have the time to think about these kinds of things, but they’re incredibly important, and any choice you make regarding aesthetics in your personal life should first run through the gauntlet of a professional artist’s opinion.

While I’m not advocating the shallow pursuit of friendship for the sake of free advice, it’s always worth knowing how to get the most out of those around you. Just know it goes both ways, so you better be an expert at something too, besides mooching off your friends.

5 Steps To Start A Relationship With “Ms. Out Of Your League”


This is a review on how you, Mr Joe Average, can accomplish the task. Of not only going out with, but being in a relationship with Ms Out Of Your League.

First, two main points

One: we are not talking about just one date. This is about building a relationship.
Two: the notion that a women is out of your league should never enter your thought process or vocabulary.

The fact is every women is a person, plain and simple. How you view her and how you first come across are the two most important factors in obtaining a first date with a beautiful women. But beyond that, the goal should be to win her heart and turn the date into a relationship. Notice I said relationship not marriage!!

So why would you want to date a person whom you believe is out of your league in the first place? Until you understand the motivation behind this thought, I would go no further. Are you trying to impress friends or colleague, or are you trying to accomplish something you want?

Of course beauty is subjective. What is beautiful to you, is not beautiful to the next person. We all have different definitions of beauty and if this is all about the physical package then more than likely the end result will surely end in disappointment and most likely failure.

We have all seen at one time or another a program on TV that shows some guy who is basically a geek trying to win over the affection of some centerfold beauty. We have seen it in movies also, such as Beauty and the Beast or the classic,  Hunchback of Notre Dame. We have even seen it in real life when you meet a couple where the man is just a regular guy and is dating an incredibly gorgeous babe and no,  he is not a millionaire.

BEAUTY AND THE GEEK

This is not a fairy tale but something that can be attained!

If you ask ten women what they look for in a man you will get ten different answers. If you ask ten different women to list the top ten qualities they look for in a man you will find out, there are similar answers to at least five of the ten answers. Those basic five qualities are what we will discuss here.

You can find advice all over the net, in book stores, on TV etc. of many different approaches to go up to a women and first meet them. The reason we won’t cover this here is that there are to many variables on where and how you will first meet her. Whether it is in public, at a bar, online, in church, the grocery store… on and on. We will not delve into those as we assume that the reason you want to meet this woman is because you already have seen her and figured out, how to at least go up to her and say hello. So now that you summed up the will to meet her, here are the five most important characteristics to win her heart.

1. Confidence: If you don’t believe in yourself, then how can you get someone else you meet to believe in you? If you have confidence issues, you must overcome them first. Having confidence in yourself will take care of many of the issues that have sabotaged your previous attempts to meet women. Having confidence automatically dissolves many of the sub conscious physical attributes that manifest themselves unknowingly to you, but scream loudly to her. Confidence in yourself will be shown outwardly by how you walk. Your chin is up, as is your head, your shoulders are back and proud. Remember posture and how they used to tell you in grammar school. Then use it!! Don’t be afraid to put a little swagger in your step. Remember you are a confident man!

Confidence

How you are dressed. This includes many physical attributes. Remember, You only have one chance to make a first impression. So, that means you know how to dress. If you don’t we have many posts here on MOB to teach you. (note; the first thing a women will look at is your shoes) Well groomed, clean, including fingernails and a haircut. You smell clean, this does not mean a half bottle of cologne soaked into your pores. And please guys make sure you have breath mints! Lastly, it is very important right at the beginning, that you recognize how nicely she is dressed and to pay her a few compliments here. Please don’t go over board but there isn’t a women alive who doesn’t love to hear how nice she looks or how pretty she is.

2. Personality: Women rate this one characteristic of men usually at the top. Women prefer a man to be himself and not put on a show in any way. Women can see right through a fake personality instantly and will be turned off by it. Women want men to be themselves. A good balance in a man’s personality is important to women. Get to know yourself so that you can truthfully present yourself to a woman.

Women are attracted to a man with a sense of humor. Nothing can break the ice easier and make her more interested in you then you displaying a good sense of humor. It’s also OK to be a bit self deprecating but not overly so. It is also fine to be a bit cocky, but again not overly cocky They like a bit of an edge to their man but one who is also tactful and has manners. Please guys chivalry is not dead!!!. And still to this day they want their men to be protective. Please don’t get this confused with controlling. That guy that becomes overly protective, will many times display a sense of being a controller. DON’T.

3 and 4. Communication and Listening: (I put these both together as they belong together. Doing one without the other is worthless.)

Knowing how to communicate well means being a good listener. This is easier said than done. When she is talking, look at her and listen, don’t try to think about the next question, don’t judge what she is saying and by all means don’t interrupt before she is finished.

It is a good to paraphrase what she just said to you. This way you understand what she said and by doing this shows her you are listening and you get what she just said. I am not saying you might agree what everything she just said. You don’t need to try to solve any problems at this point either. You’re just trying to get the facts straight. Knowing how to communicate also means knowing the right questions to ask.

Once she is satisfied that you understand exactly what she said, then it’s time to give her some empathy and validation. This is your chance to tell her what you think of what she has just said. You don’t have to agree as we are all entitled to our own opinions. But if you heard everything she has said and understood it, it is much easier to communicate at this point than turning it into a disagreement or worse, a fight. Remember we all have different points of view and beliefs.

Communicating is a marathon race, not a 100 yard dash.

I remember a saying by Zig Ziglar, who said “ People don’t care how much you know, until they know how much you care”. This isn’t the time for you to be right, this is the time to learn how to build a relationship by being able to communicate. Just because she might be a knock out in the looks department, does not mean she wants someone who just agrees with everything she says. Hell, she might not have an original idea in her brain, which would tell you quickly if it is even worth trying know this person better. On the other hand, by you listening to her, letting her open up and at first do most of the talking, you will be much farther ahead than the hunk who thinks he can just flex his biceps and have whoever he wants.

5. The Wrap Up: If you did the above four steps correctly, asking her out for a date and maybe the beginning of a great relationship will not be as hard as you thought. By the time of the wrap up she will feel comfortable with you. She will have seen your wit and charm, experienced your manners and know what a great listener you are. She will actually want to tell you more, right then and there. But this is where you need to cut it short and to wrap it up. Do not stay too long, if you played your cards right she will want more. You have built a little mystery about yourself, because you let her do much of the talking. You also made the impression on her, that you are not after just one thing. You also showed her that your confident enough, that she would be foolish not to want to see you again. So for the fourth time you need to wrap it up. I purposely repeated this phrase, to emphasize a sense of urgency that you must leave. You have things to do, places to go. (Even if is only to go home and feed the dog). Remember guys if she is Ms Out Of Your League, that means she is used to men fawning over her, not you. This again will impress upon her, that you are just being your normal self.  This will be hard, because there is nothing more you would love, then to spend the next 4 hours with her. But believe me, whet her appetite for a meal with you, instead of the snack you just gave her.

Wrap It Up!

No, all the stars in the sky do not have to line up in perfect order for this to happen. Yes,  you the average Joe, can and will be successful on getting an real first date. It isn’t hard if you did the above with ease and grace. That means you need to practice if you feel intimidated and you will. You need to memorize the points you usually fail on, like LISTENING. Like anything else in life you want bad enough, it takes practice, study and by all means being honest with yourself.

We did not go over how to meet someone, as we said in the beginning of this post you already have that down. This we assume you know already. For example: not going up to Ms Out Of Your League in the middle of a crowded loud bar when she is in the middle of four of her girlfriends or “accidentally” bumping into her in the middle of her work out routine at the health club. She , as most women, have heard every stupid pick up line in the book.

Happily Ever After

Finally, when you are enjoying your second, third or tenth date, just remember where you got such great advice.

Feeling Rejected in Your Love Relationship


Aren’t there times when you loving girlfriends and wives  just needs your boyfriends or husbands to stand by you? To hold you and comfort you when you are feeling down?

Given this scenario:

You are feeling down and feel rather lonely and tell your boyfriends or husbands about how you feel. Instead of comforting you, he does not attend to your feeling. When asked why he doesn’t do so, his reply is “I’m not in the position to do so now, and I choose not to. I’m in a bad mood”.

What will your reaction be when you hear these?

How would you feel?

If it was me, I think I may hear my heart falling into pieces. I will feel hurt and wonder why is he ignoring me? I may even feel rejected, as if he doesn’t love me anymore. All the other negative thoughts may fill my emotions too.

What about you? Would you feel the same?

Tips on what can you do in times like these

Stop! Do not let your emotions run over you. Separate the actions from his love for you. They are 2 separate entities.

#1 Appreciate his honesty

Yes, your boyfriend or husband is in a bad mood. Appreciate that he is honest to tell you that he is in a bad mood and he finds that he is not in the position to comfort you at this point of time.

#2 Give him time and space

Men and women are really different in general. When we are in a bad mood, we will tend to want to share and talk it out with someone we trust. However, men work different. When they are in bad mood, what it means to you is, “I’m going into my ‘cave’, give me time. When I’m ready I will come out of it and talk to you”

So instead of trying to push him to tell you more, I guess the best way is to give him time and space.

#3 Separate the actions from his love for you

I reiterate, men and women are different. We think very differently. Wanting to be by himself for awhile does not means that he is rejecting you or he does not love you anymore. So do separate the action of him telling you that he is not in a position to comfort you at this moment, from his love for you.

#4 Speak to a close trusted friend

Speak to a close trusted friend about it when you are feeling rejected and lousy at the point of time when your partner is reacting this way.

Your friend may be able to stand by you and listen to you. She might even be able to provide some objectivity to you in times like such when you are full of emotions and lose your objectivity.

Conclusion

I know loving girlfriends and wives out there. These are often easier said then done.

Remember you are not alone.

After the entire episode, do speak to your boyfriend or husband about how you felt when that happened. Do come to a common ground of how both of you could work out a solution when this thing happen again.

Ultimately, you are working it out together for the better of the relationship for both of you and not who wins or lose.

7 Lessons We Can Learn from Celebrity Divorces


With all the celebrity divorces topping the news regularly, there is much to be learned from their trials, and in some cases, triumphs. Here are seven tips to help you steer clear of a Maria Shriver-Arnold Schwarzenegger un-hitching, or handle a divorce gracefully— if that’s the best route to take.

Know what you are getting into before you walk down the aisle. Could this have been the issue for Katy Perry and Russell Brand’s short marriage? We can’t know for sure, however, we can take note. I often think of how we take the time to plan a vacation. We decide where we want to go, where to stay, eat, and tour. You wouldn’t jump into the car without any thought and head to a destination. Why would you do that with a marriage? Learn what your partner wants out of life, and what they expect from you and the home you build, before you commit to being together forever. That is the only way to ensure a happy future and continued travel together.

Pay attention to the signs, so a divorce doesn’t blindside you. “I had no idea it was going to take this turn,” Jennie Garth of “Beverly Hills 90210” fame told “Access Hollywood Live” about divorcing Peter Facinelli of “Twilight” fame after eleven years of marriage. The thing to keep in mind with this one is, if you’ve been fighting and then the fighting stops, it doesn’t always mean things have improved. Maybe your spouse has simply given up. Just because your partner stops complaining doesn’t mean the complaints have necessarily gone away. Don’t assume all is well; make sure it is.

First deal with the “me” so you don’t get caught up in the “we.” Could Katie Holmes’ path been different had she focused more on herself before she wed Tom Cruise? The perception that Cruise overwhelmingly ruled the roost and left no room for the compromise that a healthy marriage demands is something we all can learn from. Before you commit to a life of possible unhappiness, make sure you are a strong individual. Then together you can focus on becoming a couple.

Make your anger work for you. Rumor has it that one element in Heidi Klum and Seal’s break-up was intense anger. In an intimate relationship everyone seeks a loving and safe shelter, and behavioral issues or outbursts can quickly erode those comforts. Over time, one partner may lose the sense of sanctuary and begin to feel fearful and anxious knowing that at any time their spouse might blow up. That pattern of behavior destroys the foundation of your mutual trust and commitment. Instead of letting things between you become explosive and hurtful, use those strong feelings to do good.

Don’t compare your old partner to your new one. Was Brad Pitt busy comparing ex-wife Jennifer Aniston to his new partner Angelina Jolie? Well, rumors seemed that way for years, but the honkin’ engagement ring on Angie’s finger puts that to rest. For the rest of us: If you play the comparison game, you will just keep yourself stuck on what was wrong with you past marriage. This will keep the pain and loss of divorce alive, instead of allowing you to let go and move on. Create closure for yourself, and to do that you have to be willing to let go. That means being able to cope with what you left behind, focusing on the positive of what you took away from it. When you talk negatively you keep your bad feelings alive. When you talk positively you put them to rest. The ultimate goal is to get on with your new life in a better place for what you gained from your old one.

Tend to other aspects of your life — financial, professional, health, parenting, education, friendships and family relationships. When “Desperate Housewives” star Eva Longoria ended her marriage to Tony Parker, NBA star point-guard for the San Antonio Spurs, one of the things that suffered was her financial situation. It is not unusual for the loss you have already been through with your separation or divorce to replicate itself in other parts of your life. Often, people end up experiencing loss in a panoramic sense – it finds its way into everything, taking over even more than their love and home life. Don’t turn a blind eye to other corners of your life that need your attention, places where you can still make a difference. Pay attention so you can focus on and sustain the other things you still have in your life, thereby curbing the widespread devastation.

Don’t bad-mouth your ex in public. Alec Baldwin is quoted in gossip mags bashing former wife Kim Basinger. Find an outlet for your anger, sadness or leftover emotions by keeping a journal, seeing a professional counselor, or joining a divorce support group. It might feel good in the moment to go off about your former partner. But even if you’re not in the press or spotlight, be mindful that saying negative things out loud about an ex rarely serves anyone well in the long run.

If you keep these tips in mind you can hopefully use them to insulate your marriage and stay on track. But if you’ve gotten to the point of no return, then maybe these lessons will help you remain in control so that you don’t exacerbate an already difficult situation and make it worse. Use them to regain your footing and start your new life on solid ground.

Smart Dating Tips for Men Looking for Women Online

No matter how you do it, online dating is hard. Technology and culture have changed over the years and the dating skills that men looking for women online needed have changed drastically. Nowadays, more and more people are meeting through online dating platforms and the rules are being rewritten. Whether it is men looking for women online or vice-versa, dating platforms are transforming gender roles and promoting gender diversity.

Choose the right platform

There are literally thousands of online dating websites and applications available for singles. But it is very important to figure out which dating platform works the best for you. Connectingsingles.com is the trendiest 100% free online dating site that is genuine. With great quality results, this dating site eases the whole men looking for women online dating experience and helps many single people find other single people online. Quality plus affordability are the two major factors that make people choose Connectingsingles.com over other online dating sites.

Add personality

Creating a profile is an important part of online dating. It is basically your resume to the online dating world and not something that you should pay no heed to. Your dating profile should showcase the kind of person you are. Your bio should have a list of things that you like so that the person visiting your profile can have a clear understanding of your personality. Having enough pictures on your profile is important and make sure you look happy in each one of them. Have a couple of photos with friends but the majority of them should showcase you at interesting places to make sure you attract a certain type of person.

Be honest

Be honest with your profile by uploading recent pictures and an honest description of yourself. Make sure your profile is flattering, detailed, and eye-catching. Make sure that all the information about yourself that you give out is true. This way people can know exactly what to expect when they meet you so that you can connect with people who are genuinely interested in your personality.

Respect the personal space

Women set certain boundaries to keep themselves safe in the world of online dating. Men looking for women online should respect these boundaries and ask for consent every time you cross it. These boundaries are a game-changer when it comes to success in online dating and can help you spot red-flags and walk away from a potential heartbreak down the road. If a woman has set some boundaries that don’t mean that she’s high-maintenance. It simply shows what she will and won’t put up with while interacting online.

Stop blabbering and ask questions

This is pretty basic but needs to be said. You need to ask questions to keep the conversation going. Most men get ghosted by women in online dating because they wouldn’t shut up about themselves. Start a general conversation and go from there. Don’t blabber too much about yourself and ask about her. After talking about yourself for a minimal time, throw the ball in her court with something as simple as “How about yourself?”

Don’t play

Don’t play with someone’s emotions. Nobody wins. If you are not interested in someone, be mature enough to let them know. Stop ghosting them or avoiding them every time they text you. If you are interested in someone, don’t play hard to get or be unavailable. Be kind, understanding, and most importantly, be yourself.

The Advantages Of 60 Plus Dating

Taking the decision to begin dating again can be daunting, particularly if you have just come out of a relationship. The idea of being intimate with someone new may be positively frightening. It should not be as it is a perfectly natural for people to move on and make new relationships. Sixty plus dating is different any other times to date as now you are more aware of what you want and require. You are more tolerant and flexible in your choices of partner.

Maturity affords you the chance to be more selective in who and how you spend your time. Sixty is not a cut off age for dating at all and should therefore be embraced with more gusto than ever before. At 60 and over, financial security has been somewhat achieved as has your mind developed to be able to understand and make conversations with others. In your teens and twenties, the dating circuit was more about partying and somewhat frivolous. Being sixty and over changes your outlook on dating. Intimacy may or may not happen but you are now comfortable in your abilities to make the right decision without any hesitation.

Age related dating websites enable you to make connections with like-minded people and in turn build relationships easier with people just like you. Whether you have been single a long time or not, sites like this one are ideal in helping the over 60 singletons amongst us get together. No longer is the need to trawl through the hundreds of profiles of unsuitable people in order to find someone special. Age dedicated sites ensure more worthwhile and honest connections can be made as well as increasing the chance of meeting that perfect someone.

Often we worry that having children still at home or a marriage break down will be detrimental to our dating potential but 60 plus dating means that similar people meet and are often in a similar situation. At our age, we have experienced a lot more of life and the world of relationships and this in turn means we are more open to different and often difficult situations. Dating age similar people has huge advantages and this is just one of them.

Being open minded when dating is something we struggle with throughout our years. By the time we reach our sixties our outlook on life will have changed and adapted. No longer do we worry that our trainers are not the latest fashion, nor are we falling in love with anyone who glances at us. The way we date and love now is mature and more meaningful as we understand the true extent of relationships.

Time has been spent wasting it on unsuitable people or alone. Let us get back to dating and being with people worthy of us. No longer feel like dating is for the younger generations. The saying goes that life begins at 60 so let us get life started. Who knows what is waiting for us.

Dating a Lawyer: 10 Pros and 10 Cons

If you enjoy intelligent and hardworking people, you will love dating lawyers. To compete a degree in law and be licensed to practice is a great achievement, which only conscientious and smart people are capable of. Besides, legal professionals are good communicators, as their jobs require fine-tuned skills to argue and converse. Such specialists also need to be reliable and present themselves well. In short, the legal line of work shapes a certain type of individuals, who are exciting to be with. But are there any hidden issues you should be aware of? Discover pros and cons of dating a lawyer, and use proven tips to impress a professional to establish rapport with personalities of this caliber.

10 pros of dating a lawyer:

A research by a dating site recently found that law is one of the most popular professions among singles in search of a mate. Indisputably, there are many advantages of being friends or lovers with a justice whiz, as well as reasons to marry a lawyer. Several considerations are listed below.

1. Lawyers are smart.

If you find intelligence an aphrodisiac, members of the bar possess it in the highest extent. It’s not an accident that lots of senators have law degrees.

2. They are hardworking.

To be accepted to a law school requires high marks and a list of past achievements. The ability to perform consistently is an important strength of qualified counselors.

3. Legal professionals are great communicators.

They have to make speeches and argue various points of view, and be extremely good in public speaking. Adepts of jurisprudence are also excellent writers.

4. They dress elegantly.

Some people try to say that looks don’t matter but it’s been proven that the way a person presents herself or himself is vital in love and life. Being presentable is part of the job description for people employed within the justice system.

5. Attorneys-at-law earn good money.

This could be one of the reasons why this is such a popular occupation among singles of both genders. Some barristers charge $500-1000 per hour and up to $7,000-15,000 per court appearance. Justice is one of the highest paid occupations.

6. They are used to compromising and finding win-win solutions.

It is natural for a law consultant to seek a resolution, which suits all parties involved. Although some criminal solicitors are highly competitive, they have enough arguments in the court room to save their wits for the job, and take it easy with their loved ones.

7. They have learned to accept you cannot always win.

Losing gracefully is part of the job, as well as picking the battles worth fighting. Counsels are balanced and able to tell right from wrong in their personal lives as well.

8. They give awesome advice.

Because they are trained in examining an issue from all possible angles, legal wizards are able to pick on details you might have missed. Their ideas are useful and practical.

9. They are fair.

It becomes like a second nature to a legal adviser to strive for fairness in everything. They have a built-in integrity radar.

10. They are devoted.

Attorneys, as a rule, make committed partners. Their profession requires to be upfront and straightforward. They are not into playing games. You can rely on them.

10 cons of relationships with legal professionals

With all the benefits we have discussed, are there any potential pitfalls of getting involved with someone from the DA office or a private advocate? Be aware of the following things.

1. You need to match their intelligence and wit.

Being highly intelligent and educated, legal experts enjoy the company of people who are on their level. In lifetime partnerships or dating, they get bored of people who are unable of an intellectual and logical conversation.

2. They log long hours and take work home.

Young aspiring partners in a law firm work days, evenings, nights, and weekends to progress through the ranks. Once they have made a partner, the amount of cases they are expected to take on seldom decreases in volume, but they have more responsibility for the successful outcome. Even at home, they often work before and after the family dinner. They need your support and understanding to be able to deliver results and continue effectively helping their clients. Otherwise, you may find yourself undesirable in a relationship.

3. They may get calls any time of day or night.

Criminal lawyers in particular get emergency calls at the most inconvenient hours. Defenders are not getting paid all this money for nothing.

4. You cannot lie to them.

Lawyers see you through. Remember, they have to deal with liars all the time, and knowing when the person is telling fibs is the industry skill. If you are found to lie once, you could be out. Even if you thought this was innocent, they have a different motto: “Once a liar, always a liar.”

5. Their jobs are highly stressful and demanding.

The demands their positions put on them can lead to elevated levels of stress. It’s harder for them to relax at home than for people doing less mentally engaging types of labor.

6. They may be too analytical and methodical.

They tend to analyse and dissect things. Inability to understand something makes legists apprehensive until they figure it out. In dating, they may seem a little bit distant at first.

7. They don’t like risks.

To be precise, they are content with taking calculated risks, when rewards outweigh potential perils. However, they may not be your ideal parachute-jumping buddies.

8. They are highly structured.

You will probably find lack of spontaneity in a relationship with a lawyer. They prefer security and predictability.

9. Your life has to be transparent.

Jurists, especially prosecutors, justice servants, and magistrates cannot afford to have dubious connections. Your life must be crystal clear and legitimate.

10. They take time to trust you.

Law specialists tend to be wary of people’s intents. They need sufficient grounds to be able to trust you, which usually requires weeks or months to observe and make a judgment. And remember point #4: You cannot bend the truth, ever. Honesty is always the best policy.

Meeting law practitioners through online dating

Just like ordinary people, legal consultants, too, embraced online dating. Skills to ask correct questions and observe human behaviour give them confidence in their ability to select a worthy individual for a relationship or a lifetime partner.

Internet gifted us the opportunity to connect with such specialists in other cities, states, or even countries. For instance, you could be dating a Russian lawyer

or judge, which is easy to do via trusted websites for singles.

Mobile apps linked to matchmaking sites offer instant connections on the go. If you never had an opportunity to date someone from the justice department before, today it is within your reach.